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More Than Enough: Reclaiming Our Worth Beyond the Word
God saw all that He had made, and it was very good. And there was evening, and there was morning — the sixth day. (Genesis 1:31) The word enough gets tossed around a lot these days. You are enough. You’ve done enough. You’re allowed to be enough. And while it’s meant to comfort — to soothe the inner critic — I’ve started to wonder: When did we decide that enough was the ceiling of our becoming? And why does it feel like a compromise — like we’re settling for something just shy of extraordinary? Meanwhile, an entire industry thrives on the belief that we are not enough. Not pretty enough. Not smart enough. Not successful enough. Not happy enough. Years ago, saying “I am enough” felt like the ultimate battle cry, a declaration against the voices (internal and external) that tried to keep me small. But somehow, I still found myself striving… effort-ing… accomplishing, all in response to others’ expectations. There was always a demand for more. Each morning, I’d start over. Asking for grace for falling short the day before. Because deep down, I didn’t believe I was enough — even as I said it. Lather. Rinse. Repeat. But what is enough? And why do I want to be it? If I’m living authentically as God made me to be — shouldn’t I want more than to simply be enough? Shouldn’t I want to be extraordinary? But oh wait… that sounds a little arrogant, doesn’t it? And yet -- Doesn’t God already think I’m extraordinary? Doesn’t God already know I’m more than enough? Wanting to understand why enough had suddenly become the undertone of everything, I started researching. It turns out, the phrase “I am enough” began as a gentle reassurance — a balm for burnout, perfectionism, and the chronic overachievement pushed in our society. While I couldn’t find much about its overuse, I did find many papers written about the psychological benefits tied to affirming it — self-esteem, self-compassion. And I don’t argue that point at all. What strikes me, though, is this: The need to say I am enough stems from first believing that we aren’t — by society’s standards. And saying it is an empty promise, if we don’t believe it and stop the cycle of trying to prove it. When is enough... enough? Enough feels like a label meant to contain us. And if you really think about it — isn’t it entirely subjective? Doesn’t it shift with cultural beliefs? It starts to feel like a dangling carrot we’re never meant to reach. Because even when we momentarily feel like we’re enough -- in our own minds or in the eyes of others -- there’s always something more to chase. The goalpost moves. The whisper returns. Not enough... not quite... not yet. But maybe real liberation isn’t about being enough. Maybe it’s about remembering we are abundant, expansive, whole — complete. Isn’t that the purpose? To live each day as the gift it is -- not because we’ve reached some benchmark of enoughness, but simply because we exist. Enough may be a beautiful place to begin -- but it was never meant to be the whole story. Because when we strip away the word enough… we are left with I AM. And that changes everything. In Exodus 3:14, when Moses asks for God’s name, the voice from the burning bush replies: “I AM that I AM.” Not I am trying. Not I am almost. Not even I am enough. Just: I AM — eternal, whole, complete. And we are made in that image. Not in lack. Not in striving.
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